Have you ever heard a gecko?
Maybe it’s naivety, but I didn’t even know lizards really made sounds. I live in the Midwest, we don’t deal with any sort of wildlife that requires more than 2 months of warmth for survival. And in Florida, lizards never make it past Leonard, the world’s cutest guard dog.
But here, in San Jose, without fail, the nightly chorus of geckos click, crying out what I can only imagine means, “Hey, good bugs here!” Sitting watching TV with my family, we look up to watch a gecko dancing across the walls. I’m the only one who still jumps whenever it moves. My family laughs at me.
“Aren’t you afraid of these?” My Papa Tico asked me the first time he tried to shoo one away from my general vicinity as I assured him, Todo bien.
“No,” I replied, “These ones aren’t dangerous, so I’m not afraid.” And I think I was mostly telling the truth.
Yet every night, as we’re safely tucked away in a comfortable home in Curridibat, I can’t help but think about how much I’d prefer my home to be lizard-free. I find myself wondering, “Why don’t they do anything about these ants?” I find myself praying that I never find a lizard, spider, or trail of ants in my room.
Even now, I find myself always wanting more than anything to be comfortable, clean, and content. I love being here, but I’d also love more than anything to go home to my clean apartment (it’s all relative, people) after the day is done. Often, in my mind, I refer to this state of desire as wanting “white walls”. Clean. Predictable. Safe.
Then, when I start to feel a little uncomfortable here, I have to laugh. In less than 2 weeks, we’ll trek into the jungle; far away from white walls. Venturing into territory where I’m sure the wildlife will make my geckos look like puppies.
I don’t think I’m alone in wanting to be comfortable. By its very definition, I’m pretty sure it entails times when we are most at ease (I’d look that up, but what fun is that?)
But whenever I think hard about ministry and mission and justice and loving people, I am reminded that the beauty in life is the messiness of it all.
I think about Jesus entering into the deepest, darkest, messiest part of our lives, and I cannot help but be grateful that our Savior is not a God of white walls. I remember pieces of my life that seemed so ugly, so dirty, so broken at the time, and see them now shining as the most beautiful and purposeful.
As we prepare to make the journey out of the city and into the jungle, I will admit, I have my fair share of hesitations. I want to live in a place without an abundance of snakes and spiders. Most nights, at least a small part of me longs for my big bed, a hot shower, a fan, and to eat the food I want to eat… and it’s only week 2.
Yet the more time I’ve spent in ministry, the more I see that God isn’t calling us to comfort, to good food, or to white walls. His call to love one another as He loves us means putting ourselves in the midst of each other’s messiness, and to embrace our mutual brokenness. Maybe loving my neighbor means getting my hands dirty to help them in their field. Maybe caring for the widow means sitting with her, watching the day roll by, and greeting her neighbors in her language. Maybe looking after orphans means yelling out animal noises even if it seems embarrassing. Maybe seeking justice means going to someone else’s turf, living life their way, forsaking what I know, and allowing myself to be molded into someone new.
Maybe, instead of white, we’re called to paint our walls with the colors of one another’s mess. It’s dirty, and awkward, and tedious, and sometimes boring… but it’s beautiful isn’t it?
When I think back on the times of my life when I’ve felt the weakest, the most broken, and the most unlovable, I think of the people who dove into my messiness right there with me. They encouraged me, they mended me, they loved me. When I think of the people I already have had the happy chance to get to know already in Costa Rica, I am certain that these are the people I want to stumble through the wreckage of our brokenness with. Have I mentioned that my host mom said she’d miss bugging me when I left, that my host dad called me bad luck, that my teacher both encourages me in my faith and makes fun of me, and that my team is a bunch of really cool, fun weirdos? These are my people. I am home. Pura Vida!